Becoming a parent is a life-changing experience filled with joy, challenges, and a myriad of emotions. One of the surprising and often painful aspects of this journey is realizing that some of the people you consider close friends or family may not show genuine care for your child. In our latest podcast episode, we delve into this sensitive topic, sharing our personal experiences and offering insights on how to navigate these emotional waters.
When our daughter was born, we were over the moon. However, we quickly noticed that not everyone in our circle was as invested in her well-being as we had hoped. This realization was heartbreaking. We expected our friends and family to check in on her, to ask about her milestones, and to show love beyond a simple like or comment on social media. Unfortunately, that wasn't always the case.
We decided early on not to post much about her on social media. We wanted the care and love she received to be genuine, not just virtual. We longed for our loved ones to reach out behind the scenes, to genuinely inquire about her well-being. This desire for authentic connections led to some disappointments, especially in the early months when we were navigating the new challenges of parenthood.
In this episode, we discuss the importance of setting boundaries and teaching our children empathy and independence. We believe in showing care to those who genuinely care about us and our child. This principle has guided us in fostering meaningful relationships for her. We also emphasize the significance of creating supportive communities, or as Yazmin calls it, a "mom tribe," where parents can share their experiences and support each other.
For parents going through similar experiences, our advice is to give grace. Allow others to build their relationship with your child naturally. Protect your baby by being cautious about what you share on social media and with whom. Remember, not everyone deserves to know everything about your child.
For friends who aren't parents yet but have friends with children, we encourage you to make an effort. Simple gestures like a FaceTime call or asking how the child is doing can go a long way in strengthening your relationship with both the parents and the child.
Our journey has taught us that while not everyone will show the level of care we desire for our child, the love and support we provide as parents are what truly matter. She is growing up surrounded by genuine love, empathy, and boundaries, and that is our greatest achievement.
We invite you to listen to our full discussion in this episode and share your thoughts and experiences with us. Together, we can navigate the chaos of parenting and build stronger, more authentic connections with our loved ones. Listen to the full episode on Apple and Spotify podcasts or your favorite podcast platforms.
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