Labor and delivery – it’s a phrase that conjures up a myriad of emotions, expectations, and stories. But what happens when the experience doesn’t follow the textbook scenarios we’re taught to expect? On the latest episode of the 'How We're Doing It' Podcast, Tijani and Yazmin invite us into one of the most intimate and transformative experiences of their lives – the birth of their child.
Yazmin was induced at 38 weeks, an unexpected turn that diverged from the natural water-breaking moment many anticipate. The Musas' story is a candid exploration of the highs and lows of childbirth, from the excitement of preparing for the baby’s arrival to the challenges of dealing with medical conditions like cholestasis of pregnancy.
Their narrative is punctuated with relatable moments of humor, like their toddler commanding Tijani to "go time out," and heartfelt reflections on the emotional rollercoaster that accompanies the journey to parenthood. Yazmin’s vulnerability in sharing her initial inability to discuss her labor without tears paints a vivid picture of the rawness of postpartum recovery.
Listeners are given a front-row seat to the couple’s labor class, learning about the COAT method for recognizing labor signs, the decision to room in with their newborn during a pandemic, and the difficulties of creating a birth plan. But it’s the unplanned C-section, the intense recovery, and the subsequent emotional healing that form the crux of this episode.
The Musas don’t shy away from the tough topics. They discuss the guilt and distance felt from not having the "picture-perfect delivery," the importance of giving oneself permission to grieve, and the strength found in sharing one’s story.
This episode is not just a recounting of events; it’s a resource and a reassurance. It’s a reminder that every birth story is unique and that the unexpected doesn’t diminish the beauty or the joy of welcoming a new life into the world.
If you're an expecting parent, a fellow mother, or simply someone who values the power of shared experiences, this episode is for you. Tune in to 'How We're Doing It' to walk alongside the Musas in their journey of labor, delivery, and the beautiful messiness of new parenthood.
Listen to the episode, connect with their experiences, and maybe find a piece of your own story reflected in theirs. Listen on Apple and Spotify podcasts or your podcast platform.
